Turns out Pip inherited the
Bresler Competitor Gene. We've started playing cards ... first of all, can you believe that!!! It's amazing. Lately the game of choice is a
modified Crazy 8's. Pip likes to start out with a nice "I'm gonna win you!" to taunt me. Yesterday I let him beat me twice in a row and then I was really trying the third game but he still beat me. Vivian wanted more in on the action than was possible (she prefers to fold the cards in half and
smush the discards into the draw pile, generally wreaking havoc on the game) so we put the game away.
Today he asked if I'd play and began taunting me again (he since learned proper
grammar: "I'm gonna beat you Mommy!") but this time I wasn't playing the fool anymore. I returned a few light taunts which he did not take seriously. Unwise, grasshopper.
It was a tight match; he was nearly about to beat me but he couldn't play his final card and had to draw a bunch. That was all I needed to squeak in a victory. Then
my Bresler Gene kicked in and I did a little victory dance. Poor Pip burst into tears. "But I wanted to win Mommy! You can't beat me! I wanted to win!!"
Poor sweet pea. Phil tried to be the voice of reason (and I stopped my victory dance to offer sincere condolences and talk about how wasn't it nice just to play together??) Pip was not soothed at all by our efforts and sulked away in defeat.
I don't think parents are supposed to let their kids win all the time anyway, so perhaps this will be good parenting in the long run, but I do think next time I'll skip the victory dance.